你得要结束这个！
在2014年初的时候，我还是再给刘雨晴打电话。她还是没有变，我试着给她说她应该尊重我一点儿，但是她根本就没有听进去。我也没有说什么。
有一次一个人问我她能不能跟刘雨晴说话。当时我就不明白，因为她那时候的语气不是特别的高兴。之后她就说刘雨晴不应该这样对待我。我跟她说没关系，这已经过去了。但是她说刘雨晴这让对待我就是不对，这根本就有关系。那时候我倒是挺害怕的，因为以前刘雨晴对我也挺好的，所以我觉得我应该保持这个友谊。不过后来刘雨晴还是没有变，所以我就给她写了一封信，跟她说如果她能对我好一点，那我们还是好朋友。如果她不能的话，那我们的友谊就结束了。这封信我已经在差不过一年前邮过去了，但是她从来就没有回信给我。
现在我倒是想了想，当我想起她有时候帮我说话的时候，我觉得我不应该做这件事儿。没有一个人在这世界从没有做过好事或只有做过好事。我觉得那时候我应该原谅她。
说到了原谅，这就提到了我中国的同学。我以前说过了，如果一个人老是对我不好，然后一瞬间那个人就马上对我好了，我当时的感受是很高兴，而且我会马上原谅他们。我不会想为什么他们会一瞬间这样的。有一个人说他们对我好是因为我那时候快要到美国了。可是我觉得那时候他们好像在长大。不过不管为什么，我已经跟他们我原谅他们了。
有人说我应该结束这个感情，可我不觉得，因为我觉得他们在改变。每个人都不是完美的，当他们犯错的时候，你得需要原谅他们，因为每次我们犯错的时候，上帝会原谅我们的。
In the beginning, I still made phone calls to Linda. She still hasn't changed. I tried to tell her that she should respect me a little bit, but she didn't listen to it at all. I didn't say anything either.
One time there was one person asked if she can talk to Linda. I didn't get it, because her tone wasn't very happy. Then she said that Linda shouldn't treat me like that. I said to her that it's okay, that was in the past. However, she said that the way Linda treated me just wasn't right, that wasn't okay. I was pretty scared, because before Linda treated me pretty good, so I thought I should keep that friendship. However, Linda still didn't change, so I wrote a letter to her, told her that if she could be nicer to me, then we can still be friends. If she couldn't, then our friendship would end it. I mailed this letter almost a year ago, but she never mail back to me.
Now I think back, when I think that sometimes she helped me speak up, I think I shouldn't have done that. No one in this world never done good things or only done good things. I think at that time I should forgive her.
Talking about forgiving, that brings up my classmate in China. I said that before, if one person always treat me badly, then suddenly treat me nicely, my feeling at the time is very happy, and I will forgive them. I will not think why they suddenly done that. One person said they treat me good at that time I was going to America. However, I thought at that time they were growing more mature. However, no matter why, I already forgive them.
Some people said I should end this relationship, but I don't think, because I think they will still change. Everybody isn't perfect, when they make wrong turn, you need to forgive them, because everytime when we make wrong turn, God will forgive us.
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Wednesday, April 15, 2015
Friday, January 23, 2015
Andy
Andy
在2013年一月，那里有一个男孩从我福利院被收养了。我在上一个文章提过他。他就是那个好学生。当他被收养的时候，我为他非常高兴。
我问了问妈妈我能不能跟他在Skype上说话。妈妈说可以，但是因为他还得跟他的家人还有Jack说话。当时我就想”可恶“因为我跟他说话的时间没那么长，不过我真也不怎么会说话的，所以这也不是个什么大不了的。同时我也很羡慕他因为他有好多人想跟他说话，而且在白天的时候他可以跟他的朋友柏童峰在一起因为他们是同时被收养的。
现在他在美国已经2年了。他的英语也挺好的。他现在忘了很多中文。我觉得我应该多一点跟他说话，这样他就不会忘了那么多的中文了。他家里只有他一个人会说中文，所以长时间你当然会忘了。他不像我那样经常给中国打电话。我一直不懂为什么。难道他不想念他的中国朋友，老师和阿姨吗？
今年一月份的时候他问到丁姐姐的手机号码。我为他感到很高兴。我希望他和丁姐姐会有一个好的通话。我很高兴认识他。
In January 2013, there was one boy who adopted from my orphanage. I mentioned him in last post. He is the good students. When he was adopted, I felt very happy for him.
I asked mom if I can talk to him on Skype. Mom said yes, but because he also had to call his family and Jack. At that times I thought "Shoot" because I doesn't had much times to talked to, but I didn't how to talked to people, so that's not a big problem. At the same times I also admired him because many people wanted to talked to him, also in the daytimes he can be with his friend Bai Tongfeng because they were adopted at the same times.
Now He has been America 2 years. His English is pretty good. He now forgot many Chinese. I think I should talked him little bit more, that way he won't forgot as much Chinese. He is only one family who can speak Chinese, so long times of course you will forgot. He doesn't like me call to China very often. I always doesn't understand why. Doesn't he ever miss his China friends, teachers and nannies?
This year in January he asked about sister Ding's phone number. I felt very happy for him. I hope he and sister Ding will have a good talk. I am so glad to met him.
在2013年一月，那里有一个男孩从我福利院被收养了。我在上一个文章提过他。他就是那个好学生。当他被收养的时候，我为他非常高兴。
我问了问妈妈我能不能跟他在Skype上说话。妈妈说可以，但是因为他还得跟他的家人还有Jack说话。当时我就想”可恶“因为我跟他说话的时间没那么长，不过我真也不怎么会说话的，所以这也不是个什么大不了的。同时我也很羡慕他因为他有好多人想跟他说话，而且在白天的时候他可以跟他的朋友柏童峰在一起因为他们是同时被收养的。
现在他在美国已经2年了。他的英语也挺好的。他现在忘了很多中文。我觉得我应该多一点跟他说话，这样他就不会忘了那么多的中文了。他家里只有他一个人会说中文，所以长时间你当然会忘了。他不像我那样经常给中国打电话。我一直不懂为什么。难道他不想念他的中国朋友，老师和阿姨吗？
今年一月份的时候他问到丁姐姐的手机号码。我为他感到很高兴。我希望他和丁姐姐会有一个好的通话。我很高兴认识他。
In January 2013, there was one boy who adopted from my orphanage. I mentioned him in last post. He is the good students. When he was adopted, I felt very happy for him.
I asked mom if I can talk to him on Skype. Mom said yes, but because he also had to call his family and Jack. At that times I thought "Shoot" because I doesn't had much times to talked to, but I didn't how to talked to people, so that's not a big problem. At the same times I also admired him because many people wanted to talked to him, also in the daytimes he can be with his friend Bai Tongfeng because they were adopted at the same times.
Now He has been America 2 years. His English is pretty good. He now forgot many Chinese. I think I should talked him little bit more, that way he won't forgot as much Chinese. He is only one family who can speak Chinese, so long times of course you will forgot. He doesn't like me call to China very often. I always doesn't understand why. Doesn't he ever miss his China friends, teachers and nannies?
This year in January he asked about sister Ding's phone number. I felt very happy for him. I hope he and sister Ding will have a good talk. I am so glad to met him.
Sunday, January 4, 2015
Jack
Jack
在学校开始的时候，那有一个跟我住在同一个福利院的男孩被一个美国家庭收养了。他的英文名字叫Jack。我妈妈知道他妈妈而且告诉她我是他的朋友。所以当他被收养的时候，我们在Skype里说话。Skype跟中国的QQ一样，可以上网聊天和视频。
我们喜欢跟对方说中文。但是，现在他不怎么说那么多的中文了。所以我跟他说中国然后他跟我说英文。那倒是挺独一无二的。
当他刚刚来到美国，我们经常跟对方说话因为他很孤独。现在因为我们都很忙，我们不怎么跟对方说话了。我喜欢跟他在Skype说话。我们有一个很好的时间。
About when school started, when I was going to middle school, there was one boy who lived at the same orphanage and was adopted by an America family. His English name is Jack. My mom knew his mother and told her that I was his friend. So when he was adopted, we talked to each other on Skype.
We liked to talk each other in Chinese. However, now he doesn't speak Chinese as much as before. So I talked to him Chinese and he talked to me English. Which is kind of unique.
When he was new to America, we talked to each other very often because he was felt very lonely. Now because we are so busy, we didn't talked to each other very often. I like talk Skype with him. We had a good time.
在学校开始的时候，那有一个跟我住在同一个福利院的男孩被一个美国家庭收养了。他的英文名字叫Jack。我妈妈知道他妈妈而且告诉她我是他的朋友。所以当他被收养的时候，我们在Skype里说话。Skype跟中国的QQ一样，可以上网聊天和视频。
我们喜欢跟对方说中文。但是，现在他不怎么说那么多的中文了。所以我跟他说中国然后他跟我说英文。那倒是挺独一无二的。
当他刚刚来到美国，我们经常跟对方说话因为他很孤独。现在因为我们都很忙，我们不怎么跟对方说话了。我喜欢跟他在Skype说话。我们有一个很好的时间。
About when school started, when I was going to middle school, there was one boy who lived at the same orphanage and was adopted by an America family. His English name is Jack. My mom knew his mother and told her that I was his friend. So when he was adopted, we talked to each other on Skype.
We liked to talk each other in Chinese. However, now he doesn't speak Chinese as much as before. So I talked to him Chinese and he talked to me English. Which is kind of unique.
When he was new to America, we talked to each other very often because he was felt very lonely. Now because we are so busy, we didn't talked to each other very often. I like talk Skype with him. We had a good time.
Wednesday, December 17, 2014
Where Are My Orphanage Friends!
我的福利院的朋友在哪里呀！
在福利院我有很多的朋友。很多的都比我先走的。当她们被收养之后，我们就从来就没有联系过。那些大孩子说每年的时候，从中国被收养的孩子都会聚在一起。妈妈说这事不会发生的因为如果我们在马里兰州聚在一块，那那些在加利福尼亚州的孩子要飞六小时的飞机，就是因为一个聚会。
等我住在了美国几个月之后，我有一点点想念我福利院的朋友。所以我就问妈妈帮我找一些我的朋友，她试了试，但没能找到。我问福利院通过电子邮件，但他们从来就没告诉我。我认为是因为他们得保密。但是，我是她们的朋友！为什么他们就不能告诉她们的朋友呀！
在我住在美国的第一年我去了两个亚洲传统的活动因为我想看看我能不能找到我的朋友。但是，我从来就没找到。
在七年级我问了问一些人如果他们知不知道来中国的人，然后他们说没有。然后我就想：想找找他们很难呢！我以为会很简单呢！不过，事情就是这个事情，我就需要多多努力。
现在我还是不知道他们在哪儿！我的福利院的朋友到底哪儿呀？
In the Orphanage I had a lot of friends. Most of them went to America before me. After they were adopted, we never got touch with each other again. The big kids said that every year America will have a big gathering for the orphans who are from China. Mom said that is not going to happen because if we gather in Maryland, the kids from California have to fly six hours on an airplane to get there just for a party.
After a couple of months of living in America, I kind of missed my friends from my orphanage. So I asked mom to find some of my friends. She tried it, but couldn't find them. I asked the orphanage through email, but they never told me. I think because they have to keep it private. However, I am their friend! Why can't they tell their friend!
During the first year in America I went to two Asian cultural events because I wanted to see if I could find my friends. However, I never did.
In seventh grade I asked a couple of people if they knew anybody from China, and they said no. Then I thought: finding them is so hard! I thought it would be easy! However, it is what is, I just have to keep trying.
Right now I still didn't know where are they! Where are my Orphanage Friends?
在福利院我有很多的朋友。很多的都比我先走的。当她们被收养之后，我们就从来就没有联系过。那些大孩子说每年的时候，从中国被收养的孩子都会聚在一起。妈妈说这事不会发生的因为如果我们在马里兰州聚在一块，那那些在加利福尼亚州的孩子要飞六小时的飞机，就是因为一个聚会。
等我住在了美国几个月之后，我有一点点想念我福利院的朋友。所以我就问妈妈帮我找一些我的朋友，她试了试，但没能找到。我问福利院通过电子邮件，但他们从来就没告诉我。我认为是因为他们得保密。但是，我是她们的朋友！为什么他们就不能告诉她们的朋友呀！
在我住在美国的第一年我去了两个亚洲传统的活动因为我想看看我能不能找到我的朋友。但是，我从来就没找到。
在七年级我问了问一些人如果他们知不知道来中国的人，然后他们说没有。然后我就想：想找找他们很难呢！我以为会很简单呢！不过，事情就是这个事情，我就需要多多努力。
现在我还是不知道他们在哪儿！我的福利院的朋友到底哪儿呀？
In the Orphanage I had a lot of friends. Most of them went to America before me. After they were adopted, we never got touch with each other again. The big kids said that every year America will have a big gathering for the orphans who are from China. Mom said that is not going to happen because if we gather in Maryland, the kids from California have to fly six hours on an airplane to get there just for a party.
After a couple of months of living in America, I kind of missed my friends from my orphanage. So I asked mom to find some of my friends. She tried it, but couldn't find them. I asked the orphanage through email, but they never told me. I think because they have to keep it private. However, I am their friend! Why can't they tell their friend!
During the first year in America I went to two Asian cultural events because I wanted to see if I could find my friends. However, I never did.
In seventh grade I asked a couple of people if they knew anybody from China, and they said no. Then I thought: finding them is so hard! I thought it would be easy! However, it is what is, I just have to keep trying.
Right now I still didn't know where are they! Where are my Orphanage Friends?
Monday, November 10, 2014
My Best Friend
我最好的朋友
当我上一年级的时候，那儿有两个女孩刚刚来到了福利院。一个很瘦的女孩叫马伟波。另一个女孩叫葛亚超。葛亚超是一个很甜很听话的女孩。我很喜欢她然后我们很快就成为了知心朋友。
在福利院我有很多的朋友。几乎我知道的女孩都成为了我的朋友而且我们开心。我没有跟男孩交朋友。有的男孩有一点坏。所以我不怎么喜欢他们。
我知心朋友和我不怎么吵架。她很甜而且我们很容易交往。有时候她太甜了。当我们从学校回到福利院的时候，阿姨会检查我们的水瓶是不是空的。如果不是空的话，然后我们得和剩下的水，然后再和多点！有一次她的不是空的所以她得喝水。可是她的水瓶不是空的是因为她重新灌了。但是她接受了惩罚而且什么都没说。如果我是她的话，我会说不公平而且会解释故事。我羡慕她因为她的心很软！
葛亚超的心不是很软当她看到别人被欺负。她会为他们站起来，但从来不为她自己。我真希望我能成为那样的人。
When I was in first grade, there were two new girls who just moved to the orphanage. One girl is very skinny and her name is Ma Weibo. The other girl is Ge Yachao. Ge Yachao is very sweet and well behaved girl. I liked her very much and soon we became best friends.
In the orphanage I had a lot of friends. Almost every girl I knew became my friend and I was very happy. I didn't make friends with the boys. Some of the boys were a little bit mean. So I don't like them as much.
My best friend and I usually didn't fight. She was very sweet so we are very easy going. Sometimes she was too sweet. When we came to orphanage from school, and the nanny would check if our water bottle was empty or not. If it was not empty, then we had to drink the rest of the water bottle and more! One time hers wasn't empty so she had to drink the water. However, her bottle wasn't empty because she refilled it! However, she accepted the punishment and said nothing. If I was her, I would have said it's not fair and explained the story. I admire her because her heart is so soft!
Ge Yachao isn't soft heart when she saw people being bullied, she would stand up for them, but never for herself. I wish I can be that person.
当我上一年级的时候，那儿有两个女孩刚刚来到了福利院。一个很瘦的女孩叫马伟波。另一个女孩叫葛亚超。葛亚超是一个很甜很听话的女孩。我很喜欢她然后我们很快就成为了知心朋友。
在福利院我有很多的朋友。几乎我知道的女孩都成为了我的朋友而且我们开心。我没有跟男孩交朋友。有的男孩有一点坏。所以我不怎么喜欢他们。
我知心朋友和我不怎么吵架。她很甜而且我们很容易交往。有时候她太甜了。当我们从学校回到福利院的时候，阿姨会检查我们的水瓶是不是空的。如果不是空的话，然后我们得和剩下的水，然后再和多点！有一次她的不是空的所以她得喝水。可是她的水瓶不是空的是因为她重新灌了。但是她接受了惩罚而且什么都没说。如果我是她的话，我会说不公平而且会解释故事。我羡慕她因为她的心很软！
葛亚超的心不是很软当她看到别人被欺负。她会为他们站起来，但从来不为她自己。我真希望我能成为那样的人。
When I was in first grade, there were two new girls who just moved to the orphanage. One girl is very skinny and her name is Ma Weibo. The other girl is Ge Yachao. Ge Yachao is very sweet and well behaved girl. I liked her very much and soon we became best friends.
In the orphanage I had a lot of friends. Almost every girl I knew became my friend and I was very happy. I didn't make friends with the boys. Some of the boys were a little bit mean. So I don't like them as much.
My best friend and I usually didn't fight. She was very sweet so we are very easy going. Sometimes she was too sweet. When we came to orphanage from school, and the nanny would check if our water bottle was empty or not. If it was not empty, then we had to drink the rest of the water bottle and more! One time hers wasn't empty so she had to drink the water. However, her bottle wasn't empty because she refilled it! However, she accepted the punishment and said nothing. If I was her, I would have said it's not fair and explained the story. I admire her because her heart is so soft!
Ge Yachao isn't soft heart when she saw people being bullied, she would stand up for them, but never for herself. I wish I can be that person.
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